Formal Wear Etiquette

From Top Hat and Tails to Tuxedo - What to Wear When

At Al's Formal Wear, we know how important it is to look your best on your special day, whether it be your wedding or your prom. Making sure you are dressed your best is our business and we understand that you want your wedding, special event or prom to be as perfect as you've always imagined. (At least as perfect as your bride, wife or date has always imagined!)

Compared to the challenge women have of finding the dress of their dreams out of countless options, men have it easy. The men just have to know their size, occasion, and personal preferences.

While it may seem easy for the men in the beginning, knowing what to wear when can be very daunting. With over two million men going to formal events each year, Al's Formal Wear is here to help. There are definite rules about what to wear and when. No matter the setting or tone of your special event, Al's Formal Wear provides confident styling options for the momentous occasion of your wedding or formal affair. We are committed to assisting you with the selection of formal wear and accessories, and promise to help you get it right.

For a woman, it is the daunting challenge of finding the picture-perfect, figure-flattering, hopefully affordably-priced, fantasy-inspired gown amongst a seemingly never-ending range of possibilities. For the groom, special event guest or prom date, it is usually a lot less fuss and is as simple as knowing your size and properly matching your formal wear to the occasion and your personal style -- and, of course, remembering to buy new, black socks!

Men's formal wear consists of several basic, styling essentials including jacket, pants, shirt, tie, and waistcoat (vest) or cummerbund. However, knowing which version of these basics matches what occasion is important. The following formal wear etiquette guide will help you in choosing the perfect attire for your special day. Just match up your event (Semi-Formal vs. Formal), setting (Daytime vs. Evening) and style (Traditional vs. Contemporary) to find the perfect attire for your event!

Daytime
(before 6:00 pm)
Formal Semi-Formal
Traditional Contemporary Traditional Contemporary
Jacket Gray Cutaway Tuxedo or Cutaway in your choice of variety of colors Black or charcoal Tuxedo Tuxedo or Cutaway in your choice of variety of colors
Pants Gray stripe Match jacket Gray stripe Match jacket
Shirt White wing collar (or White laydown collar) White formal shirt White pleated, laydown collar shirt White formal shirt
Accessories and Tie Pearl gray waistcoat or vest and ascot (or gray-and-black striped four-in-hand tie with laydown collar shirt) Vest or cummerbund and bow tie to match jacket and pants Dove gray waistcoat and striped four-in-hand tie Vest or cummerbund and bow tie to match jacket and pants
Shoes Kid style black, smooth-toe Formal, to match Kid style black, smooth-toe Formal, to match
Other Gray gloves, Top Hat, Spats Gray gloves
Evening
(after 6:00 pm)
Formal Semi-Formal
Traditional Contemporary Traditional Contemporary
Jacket Black Tailcoat Tailcoat in your choice of variety of colors Black Classic Tuxedo (winter); White Dinner Jacket (summer) Tuxedo or Tailcoat in your choice of variety of colors
Pants Black Match jacket Black Match jacket
Shirt White, piqué, wing-collar shirt White formal shirt White, pleated front or piqué shirt White formal shirt
Accessories and Tie White piqué vest or waistcoat and white bow tie Vest (or cummerbund) and bow tie to complement jacket and pants Black vest (or cummerbund) and bow tie Vest (or cummerbund) and bow tie to complement jacket and pants
Shoes Black patent smooth-toe Formal, matching color Black patent smooth-toe Formal, matching color
Other White gloves No gloves